I'm happy for you to finally getting your op!
i know the struggles for being a trans gamer. Myself, I'm a FtM (female to male), but I'm not fully out (due to personal issues). Gaming (especially as male character) gives me a little bit of comfort, but things like talking on the mic is horror for me. I really like to game online, but my feminine and high pitched voice is just so annoying... I did it a couple times, but every time I play with someone online with mic, I get questions about my character and voice. It just kills me, so I stopped playing online with other players, unless I know them and they know about my situation.
And hi everyone! I like the existence of this thread! I'm sorry if I don't write proper English. Dutch is my native language.